Wednesday, February 21, 2018

NCRegister Blog:The Humility of True Obedience

I hesitated for a moment in my reading aloud to my daughters as I came across Laura Ingalls Wilder’s discussion about wifely obedience with her fiancĂ© Almanzo Wilder:
Almanzo, I must ask you something. Do you want me to promise to obey you? [...] I cannot make a promise that I will not keep, and, Almanzo, even if I tried, I do not think I could obey anybody against my better judgment. (These Happy Golden Years, “Wedding Plans”)
It is interesting how Wilder’s understanding of obedience was right and wrong at the same time. She was right to acknowledge that we owe our obedience to certain persons who have authority over us, but wrong to think it involved obeying against her better judgment. I went ahead and read the passage to my girls, and then we talked about how we are never to obey those who have authority over us if it means that we violate God’s law and our own conscience. But nonetheless obedience is a virtue that we are all called to have a Christians; disobedience to God was part of the first sin of the human race. God wants us to obey him and his commandments, but also obey him through our acquiescence to the wills of other people who have authority over us.

Obedience is a part of the Cardinal Virtue of Justice with which we give other people what is due to them...

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1 comment:

  1. Actually the church has authoritatively taught through John Paul II in Mulieris Dignitatem 24 as we as the CCC 1606 and 1607 that the scriptural passages about wifely submission and the unfortunate part of Casti Connubii repeating them are 1) taken out of context and thus misinterpreted, for instance Ephesians 5 which teaches mutual submission and/or 2) no longer bind because they stem from the fallen human culture of the day and not the eternal will of God —thus analogous to slavery which was mistakenly practiced and endorsed for centuries rather than children’s obedience to parents which is lasting. Which is very important because Christian teaching on wifely submission has endorsed acceptance of abuse which is absolutely against the will of God. Please study and pray about these magisterial teachings for the sake of your own marriage and the teaching responsibility you take on through your writing.


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